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“No thank you, I got a boyfriend.”

“…You can’t have friends? ”

This is a special one for Memorial Day Weekend. I realize everyone is partying and enjoying themselves. I have also realized that some men & women that have been enjoying themselves far too much.There are limitations & rules for clubbing and social settings when in a relationship. Right? You shouldn’t be at everyone’s table or stumbling out the club with the next man. What about drinks? Can you let any and everyone buy you drinks ?

Here are the top 5 rules for clubbing when in a relationship:

1. Way of Dress- keep in mind that the way you are dressed will attract men. If you are in a relationship, consider what your style of dress is saying.

2. Keep Drinking to a Minimum- We all know that after a few drinks the real us comes out. If the real you is flirty and wreckless… 2 drink minimum!

3. Table Hopping – This is a big one. Everything in the social scene is politics. So when considering where you will stand/ sit in the club keep in mind that it may be sending a message, no matter what that message may be. Unless you know a friend (a real friend.. Not the one that’s trying to talk to you) that’s going to that table, sit it out.

4. Screen your Drink buyers – Some may purchase drinks simply to be polite. While others will do it as a Segway to get closer to you. Make sure you’re selective with your interactions.

5. Be careful – When in a relationship, (especially when your person in known or sought after) you will have people (you don’t know )who know who you are simply based on their desire for your happiness. Be careful and be aware.

Though these are your standard rules, keep in mind that this is dependent upon your girl/guy. If their needs/ wants out of you can still be respected without following these rules then by all means do you. However, in all situations everything starts small. Be smart! Do not put yourself in a situation that will tarnish your reputation as a respectable significant other. The object is to be unattainable.

Put your, “Resting Bitch face” on and have fun. Party Responsibly